11-10-2013 WHY I WANT TO MOVE OUT

You don't want to spend time with me unless it is on your terms

• You said it was because you were not interested in the things I watch or what ever.  So I record things for you to watch.  YOU STILL DON'T SPEND TIME WITH ME
• So then you said it was because I always BITCH when you spend time with me (Not true) I say nothing and guess what YOU STILL DON'T SPEND TIME WITH ME
• You are busy but as soon as your not busy.  YOU STILL DON'T SPEND TIME WITH ME   

You never want to deal with issues.

• Every time I bring up that we have issues I am a bitch or I am bitching.  This fixes nothing 
• I wrote you cards per your request of things I resented you for You were supposed to sit down and discuss them with me but you never did so I gave them to you.  YOU NEVER EVEN LOOKED AT THEM 
• When I do finally get to tell you what is wrong you make promises to fix things but it never happens.   The only ones expected to change is me and the kids.  I think we did more then our fair share.  

1. I still shop alone 90 percent of the time.  
2. You don't like it I don't either any more thank you I still spend most my time alone.  
3. Your still smoking.  
4. We never deal with anything relationship wise 

• Smoking.. You SAY you want to quit but in realitly you don't.  I know your smarter then I am but I AM NOT STUPID.  You knew when we started this relationship that I NEVER WANTED TO DATE A SMOKER.  You knew this I made it no secret.  I have told you MANY times how it gets in the way of our relationship and fact is  YOU DON'T want to quit because if you REALLY did I know you well enough to know it would happen.
  You asked Tyler to help you to wean you down.  YOU are smoking WAY more then he gives you.
  I have waited for you to quit with every promise and it is only getting worst not better.  It gets better for about a week or two but it goes right back.
  WHY: Because you don't REALLY want to quit
• Just like you never really wanted to get married.
  YOU SAID " I will marry you but I wont be living long" Knowing full well I would call off the wedding I would have to be a heartless bitch not to.  However you STILL eat JUNK>  YOU smoke a TON.  IF YOU REALLY cared about your health you would have
  Started working out
  Stopped smoking
  Eat better.. (You can eat just as healthy with out all the money -that is a cop out) You eat way to big a portions and your need for sweets is what is killing you.